NVC (Non-Violent Communication)If people can identify their needs, the needs of others and the feelings that surround these needs, harmony can be achieved.
NVC is based on the idea that all human beings have the capacity for compassion and only resort to violence or behavior that harms others when they don’t recognize more effective strategies for meeting needs.
Annie coaches clients in the simple principles of NVC language that allows self-expression without criticism or conflict and invites collaboration.
Nonviolent Communication (abbreviated to NVC but also called Compassionate Communication or Collaborative Communication) is a communication process developed by Marshall Rosenberg in the 1960s. NVC often functions as a conflict resolution process. It focuses on three aspects of communication: self-empathy (defined as a deep and compassionate awareness of one’s own inner experience), empathy (defined as listening to another with deep compassion), and honest self-expression (defined as expressing oneself authentically in a way that is likely to inspire compassion in others).
Habits of thinking and speaking that lead to the use of violence (psychological and physical) are learned through culture. NVC theory supposes all human behavior stems from attempts to meet universal human needs and that these needs are never in conflict. Rather, conflict arises when strategies for meeting needs clash. NVC proposes that if people can identify their needs, the needs of others and the feelings that surround these needs, harmony can be achieved.
While NVC is ostensibly taught as a process of communication designed to improve compassionate connection to others, it has also been interpreted as a spiritual practice, a set of values, a parenting technique, an educational method and a worldview. In the therapeutic space it can be extremely helpful to allow clients to talk so that others will listen and listen so others will talk.